Showing posts with label me. Show all posts
Showing posts with label me. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

... you will be happy forever

"If you wait to be happy, you will wait forever.
If you are happy now, you will be happy forever."
- Sally Huss (c) 1990

Dear reader,

Suzette Anna (King) LaFleur, author of this blog and my loving wife, unexpectedly passed away on May 9th, 2011. Words cannot begin to describe my overwhelming sense of loss over the last three months. Instead, in this venue, I would write a few words about this blog and what it meant to her.

Suzee created this blog as a way to share our grand adventure of moving to Manhattan.  If you have read through the entries, you have had a taste of her passion for fine food, good music, and a love of life.  In the city, where every street held something to see or do - a new restaurant, shoe store, or street fair - she was truly in her element. Life was good and that is what she wrote about.

She was not immune to the hardships of the world around us, rather it was Suzee’s decision that this blog would be focused on the positive. It would be her affirmation to the world. There was just so much to be thankful for.

Suzee also found a new joy in describing for others those things that made her happy. People from around the world were reading her posts and cheering her on. It is true that a joy shared is a joy multiplied many times over.

I know that it would be Suzee's deepest wish that you would, in turn, celebrate your life and your love for each other. Take the time to find the magic in the day to day. When you find some joy, smile wide, laugh loud, and share it - be the messenger of joy that others can look to.

Wishing you well,

Rick LaFleur




p.s. Some links of interest for family and friends:


Saturday, April 17, 2010

New Job, New Toy

I started my new job this week, and I love it! I hope I work here forever! I feel like I'm walking into a palace each day, and the amenities are unbelieveable. There is even a non-denominational prayer room in my building - can you believe it? My new boss is great - he is clear about what he wants, and is hands off, and lets me dazzle him :) I'm looking forward to Monday - what a treat :)

Rick got a great toy as a present from work, too. They love him there :) An iPod Touch which I have stolen! Ha! I'm trying to decide if I should go with an iPhone or a Droid, because I am going to pull the trigger! I'm having fun with the iTouch, and probably will continue to use it until June or July when the new iPhone comes out.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Honesty Award - Thanks!


My new friend at Fight the Fat Foodie (aka Scott) awarded my blog this honesty award! I like to think that my posts are transparent to my new life here in Manhattan, and this helps to validate that :)

Accepting the reward requires me to tell you 10 honest things about myself and pass the award on to 10 others I feel are honest in their approach to blogging and food. So, here you go:


1. I am really tired of looking for a new job - I want to just find it already.


2. I love puttering around the house while Rick is at work until around noon. Then it gets old.

3. I'd love to find a gospel choir to sing with here in Manhattan, and I really miss my friends in 10 Percent.

4. I'm embarassed by the amount of kitchen and dining ware I sold and donated prior to my move here to Manhattan. As a result of this experience, I know I will live differently going forward no matter where we live.

5. I'd love to move back to Portsmouth, NH where I can enjoy family and friends more frequently, and go to the beach every weekend in the summer, and have a BBQ to cook my favorite Meat House burgundy wine steak tips.

6. I have no idea how people lived in NYC prior to the internet.

7. When I do eventually move from NYC, I will miss walking to the movies, walking to brunch, and walking to the gym.

8. I think after 10 years I will still have more than 50% to learn about NYC despite the fact I learn more and more every day.

9. I love biking, skiing and snowshoeing but I haven't done it in way too long.

10. My next sport to explore is boxing - time to make the Wii work everyday on that! Next year for Christmas I'm going to ask for ice skates (size 9 please!) :)
 
The blogs I have been enjoying most lately are:
Cheery Tomato Productions - my cousin is a mixed media artist who likes to explore life's questions
Rick LaFleur - My husband likes to record bits and bytes so he doesn't have to remember them
StrumErica: You Gonna Finish That? - Erica writes about NYC dining, cooking and living - her recent post about Gilt was VERY honest :)
Miss Menu - Miss Menu writes about dining experiences all over NYC - she always makes me want to go out!
Mid Town Lunch - LOVE LOVE LOVE this site - lots of good food at noon (or 1 or 2) in midtown Manhattan for less than $10. Also some happy hour posts too!
The Skint - Lots of amazing tips of stuff happening in the city, and how to get it for free or very cheaply. I really wanted to go to the premier of Daybreakers and to the premier party of Caprica!!
NYC Daily Deals - This is a new blog I've started following - I have a feeling I'll be finding some very cool things here :)
NYC Recession Diary - Fun stuff to do in NYC that doesn't cost an arm and 3 legs
NYC Foodie - Lots of reviews of restaurants and clues if you are a solo diner!
Brooklyn Flea - I saw this market on the Martha Stewart show (again - honestly hate mentioning her because she dissed Rachel Ray) and plan on making a visit this spring.

Please do visit these blogs and enjoy their content!

Saturday, March 7, 2009

One if by Land, Two if by Sea



Yesterday was our 5 year anniversary, and we made reservations via Open Table at what was rated one of the most romantic restaurants in Manhattan, One if by Land, Two if by Sea.

While I was drying my hair and trying to get it to do something reasonable, Rick came home early with a little brown bag - like those used at Bloomingdales. After a welcome home hug and kiss, I opened the bag, and the box inside, and found the most beautiful grey pearls - an opera length strand and matching studs. I felt pretty confident these weren't Tahitian pearls - we are in no position for gifts that grand while we are in the midst of purchasing the co-op, but they have this gorgeous patina, and the presentation was top notch. Rick explained to me later in the evening that they were man made pearls, so the patina will be richer the more that I wear them. It was a grand surprise - I had been considering buying grey costume pearls, and now I won't need to :)

We dressed to go to the restaurant, and left about an hour before our reservation as it was in Greenwich Village, and Friday night traffic can be nasty. We hailed a cab outside our building, and must have tried to explain the location 6 times in the first 2 blocks. Once we got to the Greenwich Village area, the cabbie had to call his dispatch at least 6 more times before he was able to find the street. We decided to just walk at that point.



We got to the restaurant about 10 minutes late, and walked through the bar area to the M'aitre D. The bar area had numerous openings at 8:15 or so, and I was surprised by this. I thought it would be pretty much full up on a Friday night. We were escorted up stairs to a nice 4 top, and the extra place settings were swept away. Restaurant Week has now extended to Restaurant Winter, and the special menu is still available. We ordered the chef's tasting menu along with the wine tasting pairings as it was a celebration night, and tasting many small things is more fun that having 3 more substantial items.

We started with an amuse bouche - it was a citrus jelly with a sweet syrup and topped with cilantro sprouts. I didn't care for the texture - it wasn't quite jello, and this bothered me, kind of like a Halloween spoof. The flavor was unique - the citrus was nice, and not overly sweet, and there was a crunch like coconut that released a second layer of flavor and then the cilantro rolled over your tongue at the end, acting like a spice rather than an herb. It was quite a flavor explosion.

Next came a pan seared scallop, with a dot of foie gras on top. The fish was very fresh and sweet and the foie gras added a richness. On the plate was an artful smear of sunchoke puree - it was sweet and looked like a sabayon cream. And a small group of diced turnips were mild, and added a nice texture. The Prosecco served with it was very light and dry. It was my favorite of all the wines we tasted.

Next was a foie gras slice served with pear puree and a chocolate swirl on the plate. We first tasted the Reisling that was served, and Rick loved this wine. He thought it would be nice on a summer day all by itself. It was too sweet for my taste alone, but it lighted up considerably when paired with the foie gras. The foie gras coated your mouth with richness and flavor, and the pear added a very slight touch of sweet - different than the wine - to the savory of the foie gras.

Next was pan seared red snapper, and I believe it was served with a California Savignon Blanc. I was so thankful they didn't pair it with a Chardonnay - I really dislike Chardonnay. The fish was crispy and coated with what must have been potato shreds (now that I look back on the menu). I saw that the skin was still attached, and there was no way to remove it. I was a little concerned since Rick is pretty much anti-fish, but the skin was crispy and rich, and extremely fresh. With the coating, Rick looked at it as a fish stick, which he happily ate. To me, California whites are usually too powerful and too sweet, but with this rich fish, this wine was delightful.

Next was a Beef Wellington, served with a French red made of 4 different grape varietals I can no longer remember. This was an unfortunate course. I would have ordered this as my entree if we had not done the chef's tasting, and I would have been very disappointed. It was very salty with a strange aftertaste, and the wine served didn't stand up to it at all. The puff pastry was heavy and I left it on my plate. The roasted brussel sprouts served with it were very good, and Rick let me know that I over roast mine. So, note to self, be kinder to the sprouts :)

Next was a palate cleanser - the Pomegranite Granita with the blood orange gelato and pine nuts. I loved the combination of the sweet creamy gelato and the tangy icy granita.

The dessert course was beautiful - it was the Guava Rose Panna Cotta - on one side a small cup of the creamy panna cotta sitting in a guava sauce and topped with a champagne gelee, and on the other a stacking of meringue logs topped with a tiny spoonful of mango sorbet. In the center was a lit birthday candle and written on the plate in chocolate it said "Happy Anniversary". It was a very sweet surprise. The sorbet was bursting with fruit and my favorite part. Rick like the meringues the best. A dessert wine was served, and I just don't care for them, so the server was kind to bring me another taste of the prosecco we started with.

After the desserts were swept away, another plate of tiny tastes was presented - less than a teaspoon each - a lemon shortbread, a chocolate walnut brownie, a prickly pear jelly candy, and nut brittle with dried cranberries. Yes, we tasted all these too. Delicious!


The night was very romantic and it was lots of fun to get dressed up and celebrate something very important to us. During the day I heard from Ann and Kathy and they reminisced about how much fun we had at the wedding. Now we have nice memories of our 5 year anniversary, too.

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Chillin' on a Rainy Day

I've spent much of my day on face book playing mafia wars. OK - not the most productive use of time, but boy - it's a fun free endeavor! I don't feel bad since the apartment is clean, and my sweety is happy :) Maybe he'll play too :)

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Eights

I was browsing some blogs and came upon http://reneethemusical.blogspot.com/

She was tagged for eights. Here are mine:

8 Shows I currently TiVo
1. Sarah Connor Chronicals
2. Boston Legal
3. Sordid Lives
4. Lipstick Jungle
5. Desperate Housewives
6. Biggest Loser (saving them up for a marathon)
7. Saturday Night Live
8. Fringe
9. House
10. The Daily Show
11. What Not To Wear
12. Enterprise
13. Kath & Kim
14. Grey's Anatomy
15. 30 Rock
16. Army Wives
17 Barefoot Contessa
18 Samantha Brown's Weekend Getaways


OK - more than 8, but c'est la vie. Since I only watch what is TiVo'ed, I skip the commercials and the show is over in half the time :)

8 Favorite Restaurants In NYC
1. The Uptown
2. The Carlyle
3. Parlor
4. Bella Cucina
5. Dominos
6. Timothy's on the River
7. Dukes
8. Brother Jimmy's BBQ


8 things that happened yesterday
1. I cried.
2. I laughed.
3. I went dancing for the first time in years.
4. I went to the Doctor (he was new and very nice).
5. I went on the V train for the first time.
6. I wore a very cool NYC outfit.
7. I worked.
8. I slept.


8 things I'm looking forward to
1. Ann coming to visit for the day
2. The Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade
3. Thanksgiving chocolate cream pie (or Christmas, we'll see)
4. Taking Christmas pictures to send in our Christmas cards
5. Finding NYC Christmas cards.
6. Going to Bumble and Bumble to have my hair done next week.
7. Finding tickets to Wicked
8. Going back to NH in December

8 things I love about fall
1. Mount Manadnock
2. Carving pumpkins
3. Trick or Treat!
4. The Foliage
5. Crisp air
6. The first time you wear a sweater
7. A new leather jacket
8. Leaf peeping on a weekday, and stopping at Horsefeathers (http://www.horsefeathers.com/)

8 things on my wish list
1. To be skinny
2. A self cleaning apartment
3. Win the lottery
4. A spa week
5. A job that is fun!
6. The perfect fitting pair of jeans
7. lots of rest
8. Peace

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Sevens

My cousin Judy just posted the answers to these questions, and invited others to do so as well. I figured I'd give it a try. You can too :)

7 Things I plan to do before I die

  1. Live a life where I can have coffee with a friend at the spur of the moment
  2. Go on a week long retreat
  3. Bicycle in wine country in France
  4. Sing in a cocktail lounge doing old blues standards with my friend Sherry
  5. Host a pig roast/lobster bake and cook the whole pig/lobsters/clams/corn with help from family and friends
  6. Record a Christmas CD
  7. Guide a teenager when they are exploring who they are - enought to make a difference, but not so much as to irritate their parents.
7 Things I do now
  1. Exploring New York City!
  2. Working hard.
  3. Guide adults when they may benefit from a new perspective
  4. Reading lots of Fiction
  5. Blogging!
  6. Looking for fun employment
  7. Meeting lots of new people

7 Things I can't do

  1. Sleep through the night
  2. Control my %^$#ing PMS
  3. Stay focused enought to be a programmer
  4. Run a marathon
  5. Touch my toe to my ear
  6. Do laundry on a weeknight (now anyway)
  7. Fit in a size 8

7 Things that attract me to the opposite sex

  1. Big broad shoulders
  2. Kind thoughts and intentions
  3. Letting me organize life, and taking control when I really want him to
  4. The horizontal mambo
  5. Letting me have the big half of the closet
  6. Eating anything I cook and saying thank you for cooking it
  7. huge hugs and kitty paws

7 Things I say most often

  1. One day at a time.
  2. It never gets easier than it is right now. (though this sounds pretty pessimistic, I actually say it when I'm committing to something new and positive)
  3. Would you like to...... (insert chore I'd like done by someone else here)
  4. You want anything while I'm up?
  5. Want to go out?
  6. Do you want me to pick anything up on the way home?
  7. I love you.

7 Celebrities whom I admire

Ok I don't really admire any of them. They make me crazy.

Play if you like - let me know if you do :)